Some Muslims always ask :”is love Haram in Islam?!!”
Asking whether love is Haram or not is just like asking whether food is Haram or not, or whether money is Haram or not
Because as food and money, love is a Rizq (provision) from Allah
Look to what Prophet Mohammad (sallaAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) said about the love of Khadijah (radhyaAllahu ‘anha) :”Allah provided me her love” … MashaAllah! her love was a Rizq for him!
Now, the question is : if the money is collected through Haram ways, will it be Halal to spend from it? Of course not!!
And if food is bought through Haram money, will it be Halal to eat from it? Of course not!!
look to this Hadith : Prophet Mohammad (sallAllahu alaihi wa sallam) mentioned a man having journeyed far, is disheveled and dusty and who spreads out his hands to the sky (saying): O Lord! O Lord! - While his food is Haram, his drink is Haram, his clothing is Haram, and his nourishment is Haram, so how can his dua be answered! (Sahih Muslim)
So every provision which is got through Haram, is surely Haram
And as every other Rizq, love which is got through Haram (through love relationship before marriage, bf/gf relationship …) will surely be Haram… even if the couple get married after a love relationship before marriage, their love won’t be blessed because they got it through Allah’s Dissatisfaction .
SO, make sure to have that pure Halal love found only after marriage in shaa Allah ...